April 2013: A nearly 60-year-old father of 4 adult children (1 girl, 3 boys) and grandfather of 6 children (3 girls, 3 boys). I met Joy when she was 10 and I was 12, in a church in Schenectady, NY. As of August 4, we'll be married 40 years. That's testimony to an ugly, dim-witted fellow of poor prospects finding a girl strong on pity, poor on eyesight and judgment, and lacking a sense of smell . She's the true treasure of my life - the love of my life - and my best friend.